The other day I was talking to a member and he correctly guessed that a photo I posted on here within the last 2 or 3 weeks was one of me.

For those of you who are new here, although I love sharing my speedo escapades, I am not out to most of my friends which means I am reasonably protective of my privacy.  Maybe at some point in the future I’ll come ‘out’ but until then I don’t think it is any ones business.

Over the years I’ve had some people give me a hard time for not being ‘out and proud’.

Although most of my friends and family wouldn’t care if I told them I’m bi, then I would have to explain my sexuality.  Anyone I ‘dated’, I’d have to explain that early in the relationship which could be a good thing, but I’d prefer to be able to choose if and when I told someone that stuff.

It is a shame I’m not 100% out though, I’m sure I could get laid a little more from the blog (although that still happens) and I’d love to film and photograph more of my sexual experiences.  I still do take some personal pics and occasionally I throw one online in the mix just as a personal joke.

So keep your eyes out guys…..

Did you guys enjoy my reminiscing about Alex’s first gay experience?  Since then he has embrassed the man sex for sure and although he still doesn’t enjoy bottoming as much as I do, he can take a fat cock.

When I was thinking about writing about Alex’s Breakup I went back and read some of the experiences that I had with Alex over the last 18 months and I remembered I wrote a post about Alex’s sexual bucket list.  We were just joking around but here is what was on Alex’s sexual bucket list:

• Feel a guy cum in his mouth.
• Work toward being fucked.
• Threesome with 2 guys.
• Being tied up and fucked in the arse by two guys once after the other.

That last one was pretty specific and that is the only thing that I don’t think Alex has done on that list.  He has done some other things tough including a foursome, lots of sex outdoors up at Birdie Beach

I’ll be sure to bring up the Alex’s getting fucked by several guys thing next time I see him, although he will probably read this before then so he’ll know what I’m thinking.

Back to Alex’s break up.  So Alex was on Grindr but he had never had a hookup on his own on there.  He and I have picked up guys together on Grindr, I’ve picked up guys on Grindr that he has also fucked but he has never done it on his own.  He is even more careful about his anonymity than I am so a first meeting would be even scarier for him.  But he did have a Grindr account and would occasionally surf around on it and I could also tell him about guys that I’ve seen on there.

The photo Alex was using on Grindr was an old pic of his, didn’t show his face, and the introduction was pretty ambiguous.

It was ambiguous unless you were Alex’s girlfriend who took that photo of him shirtless during a family camping trip last summer.

This normally wouldn’t matter either but the planets aligned against poor Alex (maybe poor Alex’s girlfriend depending on where you are coming at this from).

If things were ‘normal’ then I wouldn’t be writing about this for you guys.  A couple of weeks ago now, Alex’s girlfriend was out for a hens night (bachelorette party) and back at the fancy Sydney Penthouse after the partying, the girls were joking around playing with Tinder.  Most of the girls are married or in long term relationships so playing with Tinder was a drunken joke.

Then they downloaded Grindr, again as a joke and started playing with it.

Somehow Alex’s girlfriend saw his profile photo show up.  She didn’t make a big deal about it but she was pretty shocked as you can imagine.  And she also told Alex that she then came back up to the coast and created a Grindr account and confirmed that it was him and could tell when he was online.  This was just in case someone was only using the photo of Alex and it wasn’t him.

She did do all this weeks before she finally confronted him with it.

OK, that is enough writing stuff for the time being.  I’ll get back to this tomorrow, or maybe the day after.  You guys probably want to see some photos.

This weekend Alex and I are off on a bit of a surfing/bachelor/gay fuck buddy road trip up the coast.  We will be looking for others to play with.  I’ll give you guys more details tomorrow.