You guys know that I consider myself bisexual, I like girls just as much as I like guys.  Guys do seem to be ‘easier’ to get down to their speedos and in bed so I have more ‘gay’ experiences.

My sites; this blog, BisexualDave.com, SwimmerBoyz.com and the SpeedoForum.org are more targeted towards gay guys.  Over the years it has surprised me how many str8 and married guys reach out to me saying that they love speedos too.  I think it is awesome and I’m sure more str8 guys would be speedo friendly if it was more accepted.

I’ve been posting on BisexualDave.com this week some stories from married guys and how they introduced their wives to their speedo fetish – it is fun reading for sure.

One idea that I’ve had is that maybe we should start with guys wearing more square cuts and use that as a stepping stone to more guys wearing speedos? What do you guys think?

Daniel Craig in a pair of square cuts which I’m sure increase their acceptability.

Did you guys enjoy my reminiscing about Alex’s first gay experience?  Since then he has embrassed the man sex for sure and although he still doesn’t enjoy bottoming as much as I do, he can take a fat cock.

When I was thinking about writing about Alex’s Breakup I went back and read some of the experiences that I had with Alex over the last 18 months and I remembered I wrote a post about Alex’s sexual bucket list.  We were just joking around but here is what was on Alex’s sexual bucket list:

• Feel a guy cum in his mouth.
• Work toward being fucked.
• Threesome with 2 guys.
• Being tied up and fucked in the arse by two guys once after the other.

That last one was pretty specific and that is the only thing that I don’t think Alex has done on that list.  He has done some other things tough including a foursome, lots of sex outdoors up at Birdie Beach

I’ll be sure to bring up the Alex’s getting fucked by several guys thing next time I see him, although he will probably read this before then so he’ll know what I’m thinking.

Back to Alex’s break up.  So Alex was on Grindr but he had never had a hookup on his own on there.  He and I have picked up guys together on Grindr, I’ve picked up guys on Grindr that he has also fucked but he has never done it on his own.  He is even more careful about his anonymity than I am so a first meeting would be even scarier for him.  But he did have a Grindr account and would occasionally surf around on it and I could also tell him about guys that I’ve seen on there.

The photo Alex was using on Grindr was an old pic of his, didn’t show his face, and the introduction was pretty ambiguous.

It was ambiguous unless you were Alex’s girlfriend who took that photo of him shirtless during a family camping trip last summer.

This normally wouldn’t matter either but the planets aligned against poor Alex (maybe poor Alex’s girlfriend depending on where you are coming at this from).

If things were ‘normal’ then I wouldn’t be writing about this for you guys.  A couple of weeks ago now, Alex’s girlfriend was out for a hens night (bachelorette party) and back at the fancy Sydney Penthouse after the partying, the girls were joking around playing with Tinder.  Most of the girls are married or in long term relationships so playing with Tinder was a drunken joke.

Then they downloaded Grindr, again as a joke and started playing with it.

Somehow Alex’s girlfriend saw his profile photo show up.  She didn’t make a big deal about it but she was pretty shocked as you can imagine.  And she also told Alex that she then came back up to the coast and created a Grindr account and confirmed that it was him and could tell when he was online.  This was just in case someone was only using the photo of Alex and it wasn’t him.

She did do all this weeks before she finally confronted him with it.

OK, that is enough writing stuff for the time being.  I’ll get back to this tomorrow, or maybe the day after.  You guys probably want to see some photos.

This weekend Alex and I are off on a bit of a surfing/bachelor/gay fuck buddy road trip up the coast.  We will be looking for others to play with.  I’ll give you guys more details tomorrow.