A couple of days ago, maybe it was a week, I was talking about speedos being a gateway to gay….. and you guys pretty much 100% disagreed with me.  That is OK, I love different ideas.

I still think I am right, in my case anyway.  So if speedos are a gateway to gay, then red speedos…… there is no doubt that red speedos have caused gay experiences.  That is a known fact right?  To be honest, when I see a guy in red speedos I immediately think he is naughty.

Earlier in the year I had a cousin of mine and her boyfriend staying at my place.  They were just great and was fun hanging out, the boyfriend grew up in Brissy so I lined up a surfboard for him and he brought his wetsuit.  One day after a surf he stripped out of his wetsuit and was washing off in my outdoor shower (outdoor shower makes it sound fancy, it is more like a hose nailed to the side of the house).

The boyfriend stripped out of his wetsuit to reveal a red speedo brand speedo!!!

Anyone else turned on by a straight guy peeling off a wetsuit to reveal a red speedo and then showering outside my house?

Here is a question for you guys…. are speedos a gateway to gay?

I personally thing yes.

My first gay experiences all involved speedos and I’m pretty sure if I didn’t have a speedo fetish I wouldn’t have been horny enough to take the one great leap… and put a penis in my mouth.  I’m not saying that everyone who loves speedos is gay or even bisexual, but it is speedos which turns me on to a guy.

Seriously, if I see a guy in dork shorts I won’t think much about it.  But if a guy is wearing speedos, I’m thinking sex.

Earlier this week I had a booty call from Alex and we fucked each others brains out – it had been 3 weeks since we had caught up in a fashion where we could get down to our speedos.  It has been about 18 months since Alex’s first ever gay experience (which you guys have enjoyed reading I hope) and now we both have a great chemistry in the bedroom.

This lead to one of the members asking me the other day if I’d ever consider being in an ‘official relationship’ with Alex and my first reaction was ‘no’ because I’m not sure if I’ll ever be ‘out’ and I’m pretty sure Alex is even further from being ‘out’ than I am.

But, saying that, although we haven’t been ‘exclusive’, we have been primary sexual partners for 18 months now and particularly since Alex’s girlfriend broke up with him.

In my perfect world I think I’d love a girlfriend who either let me play with Alex or joined in and played with Alex, I’m not sure I’d ever want to cheat on someone if we were in a serious relationship and the few times during my life when I have been in a serious relationship, cheating has never been something I’d consider…. it is just more fun if everyone joins in.

I’d be interested to hear what you guys think…..

The other day I was talking to a member and he correctly guessed that a photo I posted on here within the last 2 or 3 weeks was one of me.

For those of you who are new here, although I love sharing my speedo escapades, I am not out to most of my friends which means I am reasonably protective of my privacy.  Maybe at some point in the future I’ll come ‘out’ but until then I don’t think it is any ones business.

Over the years I’ve had some people give me a hard time for not being ‘out and proud’.

Although most of my friends and family wouldn’t care if I told them I’m bi, then I would have to explain my sexuality.  Anyone I ‘dated’, I’d have to explain that early in the relationship which could be a good thing, but I’d prefer to be able to choose if and when I told someone that stuff.

It is a shame I’m not 100% out though, I’m sure I could get laid a little more from the blog (although that still happens) and I’d love to film and photograph more of my sexual experiences.  I still do take some personal pics and occasionally I throw one online in the mix just as a personal joke.

So keep your eyes out guys…..